So my ex-boyfriend, Jarrod, broke up with me last April. When we dated, he knew I had a website. But that was when I had my old URL, lindsay.kissthehyphen.org. Then I moved to belleamour.org, but I put up a "Moved" sign on my old site so my visitors could change their bookmarks and whatnot. When he broke up with me, he stopped talking to me completely. And that was really hard for me because he was like a best friend, as well as a boyfriend. Losing a best friend is always hard.
He started dating my "friend" 3 or 4 days after he broke up with me, but she broke up with him at the end of October. So I blogged a couple days later, with the title "Good Week So Far =]" referring to the first few points I made in my blog, about me going to MuchMusic to see the cast of Twilight and my birthday. It had nothing to do with the fact that they broke up, but a couple days after I blogged about it, he comes up to me at work and was basically freaking out about me blogging about them breaking up and how I was happy about it, and that I apparently lied when I stated in my blog that she broke up with him because he said he wanted to get married and have kids with her. Um, excuse me, but I still have the chat log of that conversation with her where she told me that. So she was obviously the liar, telling him that I made it all up.
Here's the blog entry he complained about: (This all happened in November, but I had to let off this steam because it's been bothering me ever since it happened)
I just received the most exciting news in my life. EVER!
On November 15th, some of the Twilight cast are coming to MuchMusic! And I was invited to go with my friend! OME! (For those of you who aren't aware, that means "Oh my Edward!")
So 14 days until that. And 19 days until the movie!
I had an excellent birthday.
I got 3 goldfish from my dad and money from everyone else in my family. My friends all got me clothes, and some other amazing things.
I'm getting my wisdom teeth out on Monday. I'm kind of excited, as weird as that sounds. They've been hurting me a lot lately so I just want them out of there. And I get to miss 2 days of school & work.
And my ex, who broke up with me in April and started dating my friend 3 days later, was dumped by her a couple days ago.
She told me that he was telling her he wanted to get married and have kids and all that with her.
I'd be backing away from him, too, if any guy ever told me that. =/
And on that same note, I'm kind of seeing someone. He's a guy from school who is in my coop class. It's nothing serious, but it's something.
And here's the part of the conversation where she told me what happened with them:
11:54pmLindsay
hey. are you okay?
11:54pmStephanie
yah?
11:55pmLindsay
okay. well i saw your status and was just wondering if you were alright. i mean, you seemed fine in the store but you never know lol
11:57pmStephanie
just cause you gonna hear anyways... i ended it cause i am not sure who i am i don't know what I want with my life and what he wanted was to much
[...]
12:04amStephanie
reason for leaving jarrod cause he wante more as in a family one day with me.. we have talked about marriage and kids
Yup, I'm a liar when I have the conversation right there
But I didn't care enough to send it to him, because I don't really want to be friends with him, even if I could.
And as if him overreacting to the blog entry wasn't bad enough. He fucking showed her the blog! So she commented on it, and she types the way she talks - she doesn't make any sense whatsoever and expects you to know everything that goes on in her life.
by Stephanie @ 19 Nov 2008 06:48 pm
INDEFENCE......yah i'm the so called friend(who was also goodfriends with her ex while they dated I never made an actually move on him) what I did was _____ie I know! So I don't need the hate mail back I already know it was bad... she wanted us to wait a year or 2 SORRY but theres a whole other story to this that she ain't saying... I just wanna say our "ex" is actually a great guy... not creepy not an ___ hole and "Lindsay I said he would do anything for me which one of those things was if we had the money now he would do all that for me." What girl doesn't want that maybe you cause your only 17(and I actually recall you saying thats what you wanted with him while you were 15-16...) of a couple weeks ago.. And we are still sorta together.. I am just not on the same page right now... and I thought hun that you were done with us and here your writing about us I don't see how thats good news(1st part sure) but its 7 months later... he hasn't said anything to you even since... you should not care.. Sorry for everything
have a good life Lindsay
Okay, #1: What hate mail? LOL I made the mistake of forgiving her after she started dating him. I don't understand what she meant about the hate mail =/
#2: I never said I wanted them to wait a year or two to date each other. Sounds like she's the liar here, not me
#3: When did I ever say I wanted to marry him when I was 15 or 16?? Excuse me, but I think I know myself better than you do. I'm not so naive to believe that a high school relationship would last that long. And again, she said in the conversation that he wanted more than she did, so apparently
she doesn't want it.
#4: I said I was done with you like a week
after I wrote that entry. Whereas she commented a couple days after I told her I didn't want to be her friend anymore because she doesn't have any trust in me.
#5: Just because I wrote a couple sentences about him, does NOT mean I care that much. I just thought it was a bit shocking because I expected them to last longer.
Sorry for the long post, but I've been waiting to get that all out for a long time and I sure as heck am not going to blog about it because he'll read it and freak out again
I am not about to start any more drama with them. Wherever they go, drama follows, I swear.
